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Custody, Divorce and information about those issues.

Your just like the rest of us; searching for information on how to survive your divorce or custody battle. And just as importantly how to protect your kids through the process. The more information you have the less the anxiety you will suffer.

I am not an attorney; I experienced divorce and a long custody battle first hand. I felt putting together some valuable information, some of my experiences and the experience of others to help you as you start down this "rocky road" would be a good thing. Instead of spending countless hours searching I hope you can find what you need here. Thanks for coming to our site (that's "yours and mine") and good luck in your journey ahead.

Dating after a divorce and keeping the kids safe

So dating when your a single parent is not an easy task. In some cases it's just about impossible. If your lucky and your ex is not psycho and you can date without having to sneak around them then your ahead of the game.

Now the next step is important, are your ready?

  • How long has it been since you separated?
  • Are you completley divorced?
  • Are your kids ready for you to see someone else?
  • What's your mental state?
  • Whats your plan to protect your children?
If your still married then you have a major complication. Even if you do start dating (and you can, many people do) you have to keep in mind that it's just

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My Ex is trying to turn the kids against me...

 

"My ex is doing his or her best to turn my kids against me". Man have I heard that before, in fact I lived it and am still living it. What you can do depends a lot on your situation. The Family court (in most counties) will advise you that you cannot talk in a derogatory nature about the other parent. There may even be orders in place that state this exact thing.

Parenting classes and mediation classes (usually ordered by the court in any divorce that involves children) will talk at length about how to act around your children when it comes to talking about the other parent. I believe that this information, this way of conducting yourself , is truly correct and the best thing for your children.

But if the other parent is not following this order or the same "plan" when it comes to talking about you when the kids are with them

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Love and Marriage, Family Affairs
Love is a many Splendid Thing, but after the birds fly away and life settles in, Be Protected, just in case things don’t work out! 50 percent of marriages end in divorce, check further on link!
  • Why Avoid Probate?
    Do you have friends or relatives that have experienced probate? If you do, their advice more then likely will be, to do anything you can to avoid it. If you are unfamiliar with probate and the problems it can create, find out what you can do to avoid it. Below is an explanation of the basics.
  • A Harvard Law School Takes a look at Prenuptial Agreements
    A recent release of a paper by a Harvard Law School Olin Fellow explains that about 5 percent of married people have such an agreement, although the facts are that more then 50 percent of marriages end up in a divorce. This Harvard Law graduate explains what she has discovered.
  • Sign a Prenup, Don’t You Love Me!
    Don’t be insulted, if your future partner insists you sign a prenup, because it will protect you as well. You are anticipating the big day, it’s not about money, it’s about love and out of nowhere, you are asked to sign a prenuptial agreement. You don’t want to make an issue of it; you’re a person of reason and logic, and realize your future mate’s family is putting the squeeze on him. But the very idea of being asked to do this has left you confused and upset.

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