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Why Your Here

  • Your thinking about divorce.
  • Your already divorced and your ex is trying to get the kids.
  • You have been served divorce papers.
  • Your scared to death to lose your kids.
  • Your in any situation regarding custody of your kids.

  • Your kids are in a bad situation and you have to protect them.


  • What's this site about?

    It's about Divorce, It's about Custody, It's about family and most importantly information about those issues.

    I started this site after going through a bitter divorce and painful custody battle. I watched several friends go through the same shortly after. They called me constantly with questions about my experience, what they could expect and advice on what to do next.  I realized they were just like I was; searching for information on how to survive what was happening to them.

    I learned the more information I had the less the anxiety I suffered. I am not an attorney and my experience was in California but I felt putting together some valuable information, some of my experiences and the experience of others to help you as you start down this "rocky road" would be a good thing.

    In fact I have put together exactly what I was looking for when I was going through the same as you but I couldn't find it all in one place. Instead of spending countless hours searching different sites I hope you can find most of what you need here.

    If there is something you cant find here please use the "contact me" form to let me know what it is so I can try to get it out here. Thanks again for coming to our site (that's "yours and mine") and good luck in your journey ahead.

    NOTE: This site is constantly being updated. You may find some links are not working yet, these will be fixed within the next 30 days.

    Foreword Don't get divorced if at all possible. Your about to head down one of the toughest journeys of your life. If you have children then the pain and damage is more than you or your wife has the right to put them through. You may be thinking there's no way you can save your marriage but you may be wrong. I have seen couples tha...

    About the Kids The number one victim (and I do mean victim) of divorce is children. They suffer both emotionally and socially. First their home life is split, they spend time with both sides of the family but never again together. On Christmas or any other holiday instead of seeing all their family together they usually...

    First Things First There are a lot of things you need to put in order before you start. If your really going to go through with the divorce then you should make a list and evaluate it and what your "ready to do". What I mean is this; are you emotionally ready for a fight? Are you financially ...

    Family Law Centers Family Law Centers are a fantastic resource and available in most area's. Many have a large amount of the services you will need for free or a very low price. They have (usually) trained personal who can guide you in the right direction to start your process. Such as what forms you will need. Where to file. How to file, etc...

    Attorney'sOk now that we have established you don't know what your doing lets move on. Don't feel bad; no one knows what their doing when it comes to Family Law other than the legal professionals in the system (and I have run across many that didn't seem like they knew much either!)...

    My Story My story, huh. Well it's a long one and I hope yours is no where near as dramatic. It of course started as a marriage gone wrong. The usual stuff lack of communication, bad tempers, arguing, money issues...

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