Dating after a divorce and keeping the kids safe
So dating when your a single parent is not an easy task. In some cases it's just about impossible. If your lucky and your ex is not psycho and you can date without having to sneak around them then your ahead of the game.
Now the next step is important, are your ready?
- How long has it been since you separated?
- Are you completley divorced?
- Are your kids ready for you to see someone else?
- What's your mental state?
- Whats your plan to protect your children?
My Ex is trying to turn the kids against me...
"My ex is doing his or her best to turn my kids against me". Man have I heard that before, in fact I lived it and am still living it. What you can do depends a lot on your situation. The Family court (in most counties) will advise you that you cannot talk in a derogatory nature about the other parent. There may even be orders in place that state this exact thing.
Parenting classes and mediation classes (usually ordered by the court in any divorce that involves children) will talk at length about how to act around your children when it comes to talking about the other parent. I believe that this information, this way of conducting yourself , is truly correct and the best thing for your children.
But if the other parent is not following this order or the same "plan" when it comes to talking about you when the kids are with them| Love and Marriage, Family Affairs |
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